You Can’t Shame Someone Into Action

You can’t shame someone into inspired action.

It isn’t a clean fuel source. I see this happen all too often, especially in the undertones of some personal development gurus. You hear the condescension in their voice, that you are not doing enough. Making someone feel bad about feeling bad is not a solution.

And they don’t say it directly, it’s under the breadth. “Stop being so lazy, stop complaining, stop coming up with excuses.” Delivery is everything.

Building acceptance and belief in a person is a cleaner fuel to inspire someone into action. Listening rather than telling is a phenomenal approach as well.

I’m actually a proponent of “complaining” in the right way. The way that allows a person to be heard, which follows a final release of the complaint, so that the individual can move on with their life. I love complaining so much to a point where I can’t stand hearing myself say it anymore, cause I’ve released oodles of layers of complaints. And then the shift happens. I’m done with that story.

If there is someone that you love to learn from, but delivers the “inspiration” with undertones of condescension and shame, that energy is being transferred to you. As soon as I pick up on these flavors, I stop listening. I refuse to hear their voice, because I only desire the purest energies to nourish my soul.

I get no one is perfect, but if someone has “excelled” in life from the source of toxic shame rather than with love, then I know there will be a terrible crash. There is no sustainability. They may be saying all the right things, but it is their spirit and their voice that transfers energy into our hearts.

Just because someone looks successful on paper and has all the right credentials, it does not mean that it is healthy. And let me tell you, personal peace is everything we truly want, that is healthy.

We can get energy from processed sugar, and we can also get energy from whole foods. I recommend doing a body check to see if who you are listening to or reading is a sugar high or if it is nutrient dense from clean, whole foods.

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